09.01.12 Love

How Can I Believe In Myself?

BY Alece Chanel Dickerson

How can I stop my intense need for acceptance and love?

How can I love myself better?

How can I accept criticism from people I don’t like, even when they are right?

How can I believe in myself and believe more in my god-given abilities?

How can I manifest these abilities and use them in the best way possible?

How can I become more prayerful and faithful?

How can I resist sexual temptation?

How can I find my balance between the spiritual world and the secular world? Is there a balance? Is it all or nothing?

How can I strive to be genuinely happy for others, when I want the things they have?

How can I NOT be envious but instead celebrate peoples best accomplishments?

How can I forgive my parents? How can I FORGIVE myself?

How can I forgive other family members?

How can I stand up for myself in intimate relationships?

How can I feel comfortable saying “NO”?

How can I break the connection between sex and emotions? Sex does NOT = LOVE so how can I stop equating one with the other?

How can I stop feeling rejected after a bad date or no dates at all?

How can I be consistently happy with just the “little things”?

How can I already be complete when I meet my mate instead of allowing them to “complete me”? What can I do to further spark my creativity?

How can I be comfortable in my path in life? No comparing, no contrasting- just true acceptance of who I am? So somebody tell me, How Can I?

- Alece Chanel

Soul searcher, philanthropist and dedicated therapist are just a few of terms used to describe who Alece Chanel is. She possesses a passion for writing on the subjects of health and wellness, women’s rights and her occasional snarky commentary on fashion and social blogs. Alece Chanel is the founder of Transparent Solutions & Consulting, a Life Directive and Wellness Company. At Transparent Solutions & Consulting she works with a wide range of clients focusing on self-esteem, relationships and living a purpose driven life! Find out more about Alece Chanel at www.alecedickerson.com or send her a tweet @Alecechanel she can’t wait to hear from you.